A Brave New World

I am SO up for introducing new ways to spice up sex by delving into our erotic nature. Eroticism is on a sexual continuum and is created by being mindful that our 5 senses can create intense sexual pleasure for ourselves or our partners; it invites exploration in many forms.  People tend to label anything unfamiliar as Kink, Fetishism or BDSM. I dislike such labels as it tends to create an 'us and them' type of scenario. Kink, Fetishism & BDSM are merely pinning their colours onto that erotic continuum. Where and how you pin your colours is your unique journey. 

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Arousal in one person will not be the same as another persons and desire is nebulous, unpredictable and erratic. Some of our strongest erotic desires have been created deep within our psyche; a certain smell, an image, a colour or a touch that sparks our desire. It can be insanely intense and totally unique and as long as no shadows lurk, such desires and resultant behaviours should be treated as a healthy and normal part of our sexual blueprint.

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If you have a particular desire which shames you but equally serves you, then acceptance of this as a normal, integral part of you is the way forward. You can walk with your tribe, with your head held high. If, however, your desire has a shadow side that is hindering or distressing you or your partner, then looking at ways to minimise it or exploring other types of sexual  behaviours that better serves you, your life goals, values and relationships, may be preferred way forward. 

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I love to walk amongst different tribes. Let me meet you there.

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