Dating and Finding Love
Dating is a strange and delicate game. It is a relatively new phenomena - gone are the days, for most of the modern world, where marriages were arranged. We now have to get out and sell ourselves. For some people this is daunting.
Challenging any negative patterns of beliefs you may about yourself is the starting point, then
building up a picture of the dating world and learning about its unique set of social rules; looking at the psychological factors; subconscious thoughts and actions and the role of the five senses that are all at work behind the scenes.
Practicing date nights and rehearsing scenarios can help reduce nerves and guidance on topics and courteous behaviour will form part of the process.I will guide you through the do's and don'ts when initially meeting and taking it further.
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How do I get to the first base?
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Most people with busy lives use the Internet to seek their partner. It is convenient, saves time and is a useful filter, initially. Which dating site you use makes a big difference to who you are likely to be connecting with. Being up to date with the dating vocabulary such as ghosting, swipe right, IRL, FWB, DTR and knowing the range of options on the dating sites to best serve your needs, are all important in presenting as a confident, competent potential mate. Learn how to create an eye catching profile with photos to match.
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Getting a successful first date is exciting but how do I take it to the next level and beyond?
How you conclude your first date and make contact with them afterwards can be a tricky to navigate; contact them too soon and you may look desperate; leave it too late and they may think you are not interested. Reading body language and communication is an essential part when winding down your first date.
How to deal with the physical side of dating?
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Timing is all important and having the confidence to check in with your date about their feelings is crucial. I will help you navigate this new and exciting part of the relationship.
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